The problem with homosexuality is that it is unnatural. Assume
that you have a daughter who's six (6) years old. Now one day upon returning
from work you see this young girl in bed having sex with a man of about 20 years.
What will be your immediate reaction? Then to make things worse, imagine you
asked your daughter about the incidence and she tells you she's attracted to
older men. Would you accept such attraction as normal? Please, let's be
realistic. The natural order is for someone of one sex to desire another of the
opposite sex. Anything short of that is perverted and unnatural.
Many gays also argue that gay sex is just another sin but
that's a weak argument. Every wrongdoing is sin but there are sins that lead
unto death and those that do not. Homosexuality is not just a sin but also an
abomination. It is detestable and abnormal.
In law, there's a clear distinction between what a crime is
and what a tort is even though they are both wrongs committed by people. Crimes
are considered heavier than torts because they are wrongs against the whole of
humanity and not just one person. For example, murder is considered a crime
because it is believed that the murderer is a threat to the entire society and
not just the victim. Torts on the other hand, are wrongs against individual
persons which does not pose a threat to the entire community. It is the same
with homosexuality. Homosexuality is a sin like any other wrong but it is an
abominable sin. It is unnatural and
Is being gay a choice or not? I believe it is both a choice and
also demonic. Being gay is a demonic perversion of the natural order. Now that
is the starting point. The individual has to make the choice weather to satisfy
his attraction to another of his/her own kind. A preacher once discovered that
he's dispositionally gay but because of his love for Christ, he never satisfied
his desires by having sex with a man. As a straight and unmarried guy, I have a
high inclination every now and then to go find a girl and have sex with her.
But that’s fornication and I know better. Sex was designed for marriage and
that is how it has to be. Just because I desire to be with a girl does not mean
I should go in for one while unmarried.
So the existence of a proclivity is not justification to
satisfy it. If this is the case then the world must brace itself for more
surprises because the arguments that would be used to attempt to normalize
homosexuality would soon be applied to normalize other abnormalities such as sadism,
masochism, pedophilia and misogyny just to mention a few.
Please don’t get me wrong; I don't hate gays, I detest the
act of homosexuality just as I don't hate criminals but detest the act of
crime. As a Christian, I am, per my beliefs, to love everybody. Now, there's
BIG difference between accepting people and accepting their abnormal lifestyles.
The church is a place for sinners who consider their ways as sinful and
therefore seeking redemption, not sinners who are seeking their sins to be
accepted as normal behaviour. Any church that accepts homosexuality as being
normal is not worthy of being called a Christian Church because being gay and
being a Christian are so divergent that they can never meet. God bless you!
